Who remembers watching interviews or reading interviews from their favourite bands about how much the band members love each other and all of that other rubbish about how great they are for the band.
The cold hard truth is this. Bands/artists want to show a solidarity, a unity.
They don’t want people and fans of the band to see weaknesses, so they try their best to make it look like everything appears fine on the surface.
However underneath it is a different story.
Every biography I have read, from “The Dirt” about Motley Crue, to “Enter Night” about Metallica, to “Lifting Shadows” about Dream Theater, to “Face The Music” about Kiss or to Dave Mustaine’s bio about his career. The same theme is prevalent throughout. The band members didn’t like each other.
No one really speaks their mind as it would cause problems in the band.
Others want to speak up and do more, however since a band member has already taken on that responsibility they step down as they don’t want to step on any toes.
Others want to have their songs included, however they keep on getting rejected or changed until the song loses it’s soul.
So they hold their tongue until it gets to a stage where they can’t anymore and all hell breaks loose.
Look at a few bands that are doing the circuit today and there is a pretty good chance that they do not have the original members in there.
Volbeat – holding on to lead guitarists proved problematic.
Five Finger Death Punch – holding on to bass players and lead guitar players proved problematic.
In This Moment – holding on to bass players, guitar players and drummers proved problematic.
Shinedown – holding on to bass players and lead guitar players proved problematic.
Dream Theater – where do you start. Singer changers after one album, three different keyboardists and a drummer change.
Trivium – changed drummers.
Evergrey – only Tom Englund is the original member.
Machine Head – only Robb Flynn is the original member.
When a record label signs an artist/band, they want to know that their newest signing/s are committed to the cause.
Want some advice.
Sacrifice everything. If you are in a band that means you are only as good as your weakest link. If the other band members don’t have the same committment, then they need to be sacrificed or you need to sacrifice yourself from the band.
If you don’t sacrifice everything then it is just a hobby.
Want to know about sacrifice. About change.
Look at Marty Friedman. Megadeth is on a high, selling platinum records (we’ll excuse the “Risk” album) and Marty Friedman leaves. As a fan of Megadeth and a fan of Marty Friedman’s solo work, I didn’t want it to happen.
Friedman reinvented himself by describing it as the best decision he has ever made, because, he was looking at the music that was making up the Top 10 in Japan and he liked it. Then he compared it to the music that was making up the Top 10 in America and as a musician he felt that Japan was the scene that he should be in.
It takes guts.
I can’t say I was a fan of the music he did while in Japan, however a musician needs to follow their muse. And that is what Marty Friedman did.